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Slavic women are famous for their very special beauty and kind-hearted nature. It is not for nothing that they are considered one of the best wives, because the combination of natural beauty and kindness, the ability to run a house and take care of a family is truly typical of Slavic women.
But this does not mean at all that winning the heart of a Slavic girl is an easy-peasy deal. Today, many women of Slavic origin are quite picky about choosing a life partner. This is partly dictated by the desire to find a spouse with whom they want to spend the rest of their lives and share happy moments every day. In part, this selectiveness is dictated by the high level of self-esteem and pride characteristic of Slavic girls. So do not think that by the very fact of your interest in them you will be able to fall in love with a Slav from the very first minutes.
What does it take to have a successful date with a Slavic girl and get a chance to further develop the relationship? We have 10 tricks you can use to be successful.
Slav women feel with their hearts when a man is disingenuous with them. The women of this region have an incredibly developed intuition, they easily feel falsehood and deceit. Even the language barrier will not help you hide your intentions because many Slavic ladies easily read emotions from facial expressions and body language. Being natural-born psychologists, they may not even be aware of this but they are unlikely to agree to a second date with such a man.
Talking about your career on the first date with a Slavic girl can lead nowhere. It was long ago when Slavic women were mainly engaged in the household only. There are lots of successful business ladies and skilled professionals among them today, so your career won’t impress them much. Besides, you are not at your PM’s meeting, so do not focus much on your career. The exception is when she asks you about your career, then you can tell her more about it.
There is one trick that will definitely work when it comes to Slavic brides. This is the ability to be a gentleman and behave gallantly towards her. You will be surprised, but for Slavic men, such behavior is rather rare, therefore women are especially sensitive to respectful behavior, signs of attention, and care from a potential partner. How does it work in practice? It is unusual for Slavs to be treated like princesses. Most men perceive them as strong and self-sufficient women who take care of everyone around them but do not require care themselves. Of course, this is not at all the case, and if you want to melt the heart of a Slavic girl, a little unobtrusive care and gallant behavior will help you do it as quickly as possible.
Another trick that can be used during a date with a Slavic girl is a romantic entourage. Many girls lack romance, and Slavic dating most often involves joint visits to the cinema, restaurants, or walks around the city. But in general, girls from Slavic countries are not used to a high degree of romance. And you can play well on this fact. Think about how exactly you can surprise your chosen one with the help of romantic attributes. It could be choosing an unusual place for a first date, a carefully planned surprise, or an unexpected offer to visit a romantic place in your location. It is better to prepare for such a date in advance, find out the work schedules of the establishments, and find out a little from the girl what exactly she likes the most. If you do not deceive her expectations, you will be guaranteed success.
For many years, men on both sides of the ocean had the erroneous impression that Slavic women were looking not for the love of their lives, but for a bag of gold that could support and provide for them. Today, this stigma of being a golddigger has become a real punishment from heaven for many girls from Slavic countries. And they do their best to protect themselves from it because the times when the size of a bank account was decisive when choosing a groom are long gone for them. Most of the girls who use dating services make good money themselves, and if you focus their attention on your wealth on a date, they may consider it as an insult because you hint in such a way that they are only interested in money.
Slavic women are well aware that their appearance is highly valued in the world. Moreover, it was Slavic women who achieved unprecedented results in the ability to look after their faces and bodies. You are bound to meet a groomed girl from Slavic countries. Remember that gorgeous women should be recognized by compliments. In order not to put your foot in it, keep in mind the formula: the more banal the compliment from the man, the less interested the girl will be. So be creative, try expressing admiration in a non-standard way.
What do Slavic women hate in men besides neglect and frankly bad appearance? The answer is simple: it is a lack of a sense of humor. For a Slavic girl, humor is the same integral element of male attractiveness as expensive perfume, a healthy look, and a stylish outfit. So think about how good your sense of humor is. Of course, you should not go too far, and making your stand-up show out of a date will be redundant. But girls will definitely appreciate the ability to joke and perceive humor.
All girls love gifts, and Slavs are no exception. But do not go to extremes, especially when you are preparing for one of the first dates with a Slavic girl because the wrong gift can put an end to your relationship. It is very important to strike a balance here. On the one hand, a girl will not appreciate an insignificant souvenir or a cheap gift. Moreover, she may regard such a present as your superficial attitude towards her. On the other hand, expensive and precious gifts on first dates can scare or offend your potential partner because often such gifts are seen as an attempt to buy her. It is better to choose something unusual or something that the girl has long wanted to receive than to give nonsense or an overpriced gift.
For modern girls, sex on a first date is normal. Especially if they are not looking for a serious and lasting relationship, but just having fun. But Slavic women are often brought up in a completely different spirit. For them, an intimate relationship with a man on a first date is simply unacceptable. Therefore, you should not rush things and tell your partner directly that you want to sleep with her. Better watch, perhaps your counterpart herself will give you a signal that it is worth continuing the date in this way.
Even with all the advice that we have given you, you should not think that Slavic women are creatures from another planet. All people are different, and at the same time, the same. Therefore, trust your feelings and emotions, look at a Slavic girl not from the position of her nationality and mentality, but from the position of respect, love, and your inner attitude towards her. That way you are guaranteed success.
Kenneth O'Riley – a relationship coach and psychologist based in Montreal, Canada. Besides a huge experience of working with couples and singles, Kenneth can share knowledge about Slavic women and the peculiarities of dating ladies from Ukraine and Russia. Our author has Ukrainian origin and lived in Kyiv, Ukraine, for 10 years. Such experience allows us to call him a real expert in Slavic girls and share working tips with you.
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