Ukrainian women are famously beautiful, charming, and feminine. They are what you can call a ‘perfect woman,' the man’s dream come true. In addition, they are intelligent, educated, hard-working, and loyal. Finding a Ukrainian woman who likes you and wants to spend her life with you is like hitting a jackpot, but better. We do not exaggerate; we just remind you of the traits of Ukrainian woman that make the brides from this country so sought-after.
How to impress Ukrainian women
However, don’t build dream castles yet. These amazing femmes won’t fall for you just by the fact of you paying attention to them and typing ‘Hi’ in a chat. You need to approach them properly, make a good first impression and consolidate your initial success. After that, if everything goes well, you can invite her to come to your place (be it an apartment or a country) and see where the events will take you.
It sounds easy but is often hard to do. How to impress, what to say, what to do? Are there proven recipes that will make her like you right on the spot? Are there mild jokes that inevitably steer the conversation into a more explicit and hot path? Do they even exist?
Well, it all depends. All women are different, but there are some common patterns of what a woman may like or not like. You can impress Ukrainian lady at any moment of your interactions, at the beginning or when you are deep into dating. And the more pleasant these moments are – from her viewpoint, mind you - the closer you are to getting her into your life, your bed, and then into wedlock.
28 Tips on How To Make A Very Positive Impression On A Ukrainian Woman
To impress, you can do and say a lot of things – and there are things you’d better never say or do, no matter how harmless or normal they seem to you. Surprising her by your way of behavior – in a positive sense – is an important part of making a deep positive impression on her.
And now the grand list of ways you can secure a place in her heart and mind, whether interacting online or offline.
Be polite. No, not sugary nice, which is sometimes mildly annoying, but really polite. If you need a clue, think about how you would talk to a good long-time colleague of yours. Don’t go into the intimacy or horny topics until she encourages it. This kind of thin boundary is very important at the beginning of your relationship, and your ability to maintain it will impress a woman greatly.
Stick to your word. If you promise something – stick to your promise.
Remember what she told you (and act on it, if you can). When you listen, try to actually hear what she says. Yeah, it feels OK to you just to admire her face or hair when she talks, without paying attention to her ‘chatting’, but she wants to convey something to you, she talks because she wants you to understand something.
Show interest in her life, what she does, what her interests are, what she does not like, etc. Ask and remember her answers. It’s really important and it’s one of the big things that women appreciate. Jot down some numbers or words if you need this kind of a reminder like you set reminders about birthdays. It’s OK, we tell you.
Show responsibility. Act on your words, and admit your responsibility for your life and for things you need to take care of. If you tell stories from your life, don’t pick stories that highlight your teen-like (or even jerk-like) behavior. They are fine for chats over a beer with your buddies. A woman is impressed by a serious guy who knows what he wants and how to accomplish it – in an acceptable reasonable way.
Be clear about your intentions and plans regarding her – or you both. If you want marriage – say it. If you look for an easy romance, say it, too.
Don’t lie to her – sooner or later the truth will be exposed, whether about your long painful divorce process or about your finances.
Have interesting topics to talk about. Yes, the ability to start a conversation politely and keep it running without telling silly jokes or complaining about your life is extremely important. Think about what you both can talk about and save that list of easy and inoffensive topics.
Don’t be afraid to apologize if you’ve said something inappropriate. We all can have missteps, and admitting is a true virtue.
Don’t do all the chatting, let her have her say and read/or listen attentively.
When you plan video calls, always ask what time will be OK for her. Then try to accommodate her schedule.
If you planned a video call, make this call. Don’t forget it or drop it for the sake of doing something else. Such carelessness can really impress a woman, just not the way you expect.
If she has to cancel the online date and notifies you in advance, take it gracefully, don’t start complaining or nagging her (reserve that until you are safely married. Well, marriage dos and don’ts are a topic for another discussion).
Don’t pretend to know everything and don’t try to ‘explain’ things to her – it’s called mansplaining, and yes, this blunder is regularly made by men all around the world. So impress Ukrainian girl by NOT doing it.
During video calls, maintain a neat and clean look. You do not need to dress black tie, but don’t wear an old tee and crumpled shorts matched by an untidy stub on your face either. It just screams disrespect.
Please, please don’t try to pester her into sending you her explicit pics or undressing during your online date. You cannot even imagine how many men start their chatting or zooming with requests for ‘some nudes’, but you can imagine that it means the end of any tender connection that there was. So, don’t do it until you know each other better and feel that you can move into ‘hotter communication’.
Until now, we talked about ways to impress her while you have long-distance relationships facilitated by messengers and Zoom. Now imagine that you’ve asked her to come to visit and meet her in person.
Don’t try to make her stay with you during her first visit. Negotiate everything in advance, and offer a hotel nearby as a solution. Offer to pay (yes, she will expect you to do it), but don’t argue if she says she will pay for her stay.
Groom yourself for meeting in person. Yes, it will take more than putting on a clean shirt. Book a haircut in advance, select clean nice clothes, and take a shower before dressing up. You cannot fit all preparations into 15 minutes before dashing at the airport, trust us. But your look during this first meeting really matters.
Bring flowers and be polite. Don’t start on a too intimate note, because you hadn’t had that real-life chemistry yet. Yes, this kind of self-control and restraint always impresses women, whether Ukrainian or of any other nationality.
If you offer to pay for something, be generous.
Have a plan A and a plan B. You are on the receiving side, so it’s up to you to offer a plan of what to do because you’ll definitely spend a lot of time together.
Be decisive. If she’s unsure about something, offer a solution and know how to implement it.
Compliment her looks or anything you find cool about her – sincerely. Dated compliments feel fake and sound totally unimpressive.
Don’t be pushy about sex during your first meeting. Yes, you definitely expect it to happen, but she does not owe it to you. Again, many guys somehow think that if they invite a woman from another country and she comes, she has to be open to sex and the like. No, she does not. And understanding this fact is the best impression you can make on her. Or at least mention your expectations honestly before she starts her trip to your country.
Asking what domestic chores she plans to do in relationships is another huge blunder guys make. A wife from abroad does not equal a free manual laborer. Don’t start asking immediately if she’s a good cook and how many kids she wants to have. You don’t hire a housekeeper, you look for love – or at least you told her so. If she plans long-term relationships, she will tell you how she sees them.
When it comes to sex, don’t try to impose your secret dreams or things seen in porn on her. Ask what she likes and try to do it, as well as you can. And be slow during your first time together, that’s a key rule.
Don’t say things like ‘I thought you were higher or thinner or loved cooking and homemaking’. She definitely has a lot of similar things to say but will keep them to herself.
Be relaxed and friendly with her; don’t be too shy and don’t try to shower her with compliments or flowers if you don’t plan to do it afterward. Be yourself, to put it bluntly. You both deserve this degree of honesty, and it works wonders, as women themselves confess. If there is chemistry, it will kindle a fire between you despite all the small glitches and awkward moments.
Summing It Up
These are the key things to keep in mind when you ask yourself a question: how can I impress a Ukrainian girl. As you see, you don’t have to slay a dragon or buy her a yacht to make a positive impression (although if you plan to buy someone a yacht, we’re in the game, drop us a line, friend). Be serious, responsible, and honest, act with politeness and civility, and she will forgive you many other things, including the mediocre sense of humor and absence of sculpted abs.
Remember our tips while chatting to her online and while planning your first date, and everything will be great for you two. Good luck, mate!
Kenneth O'Riley – a relationship coach and psychologist based in Montreal, Canada. Besides a huge experience of working with couples and singles, Kenneth can share knowledge about Slavic women and the peculiarities of dating ladies from Ukraine and Russia. Our author has Ukrainian origin and lived in Kyiv, Ukraine, for 10 years. Such experience allows us to call him a real expert in Slavic girls and share working tips with you.
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