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In some cultures, young people don’t have the question of how to get wife: there is a tradition when parents choose a bride for their son. However, most men don't know where to start when they are thinking about starting a family. Where to find and how long to look for the only one you will live a long and happy life with? Let's find out! Read another useful SweetyDate guide!
It's impossible to answer this question clearly. To begin with, you have to know what kind of woman you see next to you. As we get older, we start to understand ourselves better, our desires and needs. We realize what is vital to us and what is non-essential. If you think it's time to end the bachelor's status, determine the long-term and short-term goals.
A beautiful face and a nice figure are not the best reason to tie your life to someone. It's better to choose carefully and practically, not forgetting about feelings and passion. If you meet a girl you want to get married to, make a list of key moments in a couple's life. Each of you needs to write a plan for how you see these moments in 5 and 10 years, for example, finances, children, career, sex, ways to keep the spirit of romance and not get bogged down in everyday problems. You will be able to compare ideas about family and make sure that you are going to move in the same direction.
When looking for a wife, you shouldn't set rigid limits because you are a living person with your feelings and thoughts, and something may not go according to plan. But if you are searching for a wife for over five years and none of the girls you have been in a relationship with don't fit the role of your wife, you may want to think about it. Aren't you too picky about girls or yourself? After all, there is no such thing as a perfect person.
We all want to show our best side. No person would consciously demonstrate his/her negative qualities on a first date. And even on the contrary, if a person likes him/her, a partner may try to adjust to his/her beloved one. If a woman falls in love, she changes a lot. She tries to match the man's level, trying to pass herself off as his ideal.
You'll say, “Well, that's wonderful! Love changes people.” But any candy and bouquet period comes to an end. Both women and men tend to go back to the old version of themselves. This romantic stage usually lasts for eight months. And if you play a wedding during this time, the partners are not married to the real person, but an improved version of themselves. As a rule, such couples take off the blinders already in marriage and what they see is not particularly pleasing.
American psychologists believe that you should date for about two years before marriage. During this time, the passion moves to a higher level, which is true love, according to most people. However, you should not drag it out either: free unions often end sadly.
It's not enough to have outer beauty and sex appeal. There are many beautiful women, but not every lady is suitable for the role of a spouse. According to some males, an ideal wife should have the following qualities:
Such a wife doesn't hide her feelings, is ready for dialogue, and solves the problems that bother her. She talks about herself but is also able to listen to her husband.
There are no perfect people: everyone has his/her shortcomings, habits developed over the years. A woman should take her husband as he is and not try to re-educate him.
A wife should give her husband reliable support — she can turn the house into a place where her spouse can relax and rest.
A wise partner won't manipulate, play on her man's feelings to get the recognition of her rightness, evidence of her love, etc. She knows how not to bring disagreements to conflicts and is ready to compromise.
If all the girl's interests consist of discussing the latest fashion trends and posts on social networks, it is unlikely that the spouses will find common topics of conversation.
Today, it's easy to date a girl from another country. There is no need to book tickets, pack a suitcase and fly to a foreign and distant country. To meet your destiny, it is enough to turn on your computer and sign up on an international dating site.
Love knows no boundaries, but by marrying a foreign lady, you may face pros and cons.
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Today, the ratio of single men to women remains relatively equal, but there is a large gap in some countries. There are countries where there are more women than men, such as Ukraine, Russia, Belarus, Latvia, Guadeloupe, Hong Kong, etc. Each of these women deserves her marital happiness, and, as a rule, they look for husbands abroad.
The second reason — some females want to leave their country and find financial stability. One easy way to do this is to marry a foreigner.
Thirdly, a lot of brides like Western men and don't mind having an affair or building a family with a foreigner.
Kenneth O'Riley – a relationship coach and psychologist based in Montreal, Canada. Besides a huge experience of working with couples and singles, Kenneth can share knowledge about Slavic women and the peculiarities of dating ladies from Ukraine and Russia. Our author has Ukrainian origin and lived in Kyiv, Ukraine, for 10 years. Such experience allows us to call him a real expert in Slavic girls and share working tips with you.
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