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More and more foreigners are meeting their "soulmates" online. Often chatting on Ukrainian dating sites even leads to marriage. We will tell you how to look for Ukrainian wives, what you should pay attention to in the first place, and how to recognize girls who are not ready for a real relationship.
These days many Ukrainian girls are looking for their love online and are ready to marry a decent guy: whether he's Ukrainian or a foreigner. Often chatting on Ukrainian dating sites even leads to marriage. We will tell you how to look for Ukrainian wives, what you should pay attention to in the first place, and how to recognise girls who are not ready for a real relationship.
Yes, of course, you can find a Ukrainian bride online. There are several ways:
Get to know a girl through mutual acquaintances.
This option is suitable for those who have Ukrainian acquaintances or colleagues. This is a good option for dating, as you will immediately have a common contact, you can learn a little about the girl and she will not be afraid to start a conversation.
Find a girl on social media: Instagram, Facebook, etc.
This is not a bad option either. Ukrainian women are often on social networks, taking lots of photos and chatting. You can find out a little bit about her interests and see if she is right for you. However, there is a disadvantage - often such "communication" can break up on your first message, as Ukrainians are quite suspicious and may not reply to a stranger on social networking sites.
Dating websites.
Many people underestimate this kind of dating, preferring other formats - and in vain. Of course, the number of girls on dating websites is much lower than on social media. However, the quality indicator is more important - all girls on these sites know exactly what they want - to find a husband.
According to the experts, it's better to start your presentation with a photo. It is desirable to upload at least three good pictures. The first is a portrait photo with a friendly expression on your face. The second one might be a full-length photo, while the third one shows real-life emotions, like a walk with your dog or rest in the mountains. Choose a positively charged photo that appeals to you and your friends. If you're looking to get serious, never post sexually explicit photos. Those who post just one photo may go unnoticed.
Men should post a good photo of themselves, but one that shows they are socially active, energetic, and in demand. For example, at the gym, behind the wheel. Even more exotic ones, such as on horseback or in the desert, would be appropriate. This will show you as a versatile and socially active person. Psychologists say that for men, appearance is not so important, the main thing - activity and success.
So, the photo is ready. What to write about yourself in the application form? Psychologists do not advise you to write your full biography and plans for the future. It's enough to write a few bright phrases and it's better to do it with humor. Otherwise, your chosen one may think you are a bore. Experts advise leaving the details for closer acquaintance. You want that person on the other side of the screen wanted to get to know you better.
And looking through other people's profiles, we must not forget that people embellish themselves on the internet, from photos to features and "regalia". "Intuition has to work, but not everyone has it developed. A huge number of people mistake wishful thinking for reality. But after a while, the distance shrinks and the person "becomes" themselves. With some, it is necessary to shorten the distance to see the best in the person. And with some, it never has to be reduced, because as long as the distance is maintained, the person appears the way he or she wants to present himself or herself.
Men who want to build a serious relationship should necessarily write "love, relationship, family and marriage" in the "purpose of dating" column. Psychologists say that children are an important item - afterward, because of the different views on this issue a couple can break up. One could write briefly about the qualities of the desired partner.
For men who want to get a lot of feedback, psychologists advise writing that they are looking for Ukrainian women for marriage who will respect and care about them.
When the questionnaire is ready, you can go looking for a woman. And here, it's important not to miss some "telling" nuances. You can learn a lot about a person just by looking carefully at his profile. For example, if a woman writes that she is looking for a self-sufficient, successful, and wealthy man, she is looking for a man who will support her. If a man says he's looking for a "normal" Ukrainian bride to take care of him, it could mean he considers all of his exes abnormal and will sooner or later react in the same way to you. People often screw up in little things like that.
It is better to be as honest as possible about yourself on such sites. Sometimes people who are not so sure of themselves in real life enter the internet space. Instead of developing themselves as a person, they present an unreal image to their future Ukrainian brides. And the result is destruction when two people meet and are completely out of sync with each other's expectations. Many work out their complexes and remain somewhat secure.
There is no point in procrastinating if the correspondence does not turn into a fling. If you find out you are attracted to your match, you may exchange phone numbers and call her first, before agreeing to a meeting. The most common mistake, which people encounter on dating sites - is when they just get sucked into it as a quagmire, psychologists say. And instead of building a real live relationship, they begin to drag out the correspondence, an online romance can last for weeks or even months.
A real person with serious intentions is not in the mood for a long online relationship. If the person keeps putting off the meeting, citing lack of time, or not giving you a phone number, they are wasting your time. Over time, it may turn out that she is married herself and is just getting attention on the site that she lacks at home.
Psychologists advise putting the first date in a clear time frame - just in case you don't have to figure out how to leave before dessert arrives. For example, you could say you have an hour of free time at lunchtime. If you don't like your partner, it will save you a lot of trouble, and if the conversation is interesting, it will boost their interest.
For a first date, you can pick out your wardrobe beforehand, think about your appearance and work through a list of topics to discuss. You could arrange a date in a familiar place to reduce anxiety - not going on an extreme hike in the mountains but hanging out in a cafe.
To build a lasting relationship, experts advise keeping a distance at the outset. Many women put themselves in the position of allowing the possibility of a lack of a honeymoon phase. Dating sites level out this moment of conquest. The man feels more available. Because he is not heavily invested in the relationship at the initial stage, the value of the relationship to the partner may be diminished.
Kenneth O'Riley – a relationship coach and psychologist based in Montreal, Canada. Besides a huge experience of working with couples and singles, Kenneth can share knowledge about Slavic women and the peculiarities of dating ladies from Ukraine and Russia. Our author has Ukrainian origin and lived in Kyiv, Ukraine, for 10 years. Such experience allows us to call him a real expert in Slavic girls and share working tips with you.
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